What's Inside This Guide?

Our grandparent contact guide covers:

• Do grandparents have legal rights? The law explained simply
• When mediation can help Family relationship disputes and communication
• Child Arrangements Orders The court application process
• Getting 'leave to apply' The permission stage before your application
• Template letter Requesting contact in writing

Your Legal Position as a Grandparent

Unlike parents, grandparents don't have automatic rights to see their grandchildren. But the law does recognize that grandparent relationships are often important for children's wellbeing.

If parents refuse contact, you can apply to court for a Child Arrangements Order - but you must first get the court's permission ('leave to apply'). The court will consider your relationship with the child and why you're seeking contact.

• No automatic right to contact
• Can apply for a Child Arrangements Order
• Must first get court's permission to apply
• Court considers child's best interests
• Strong existing relationship helps your case

When Mediation Can Help

Before going to court, mediation can help family members discuss the situation with a neutral third party. Mediation is voluntary - everyone has to agree to attend.

Often, parents are willing to discuss contact if it's approached calmly and through mediation rather than immediate legal action. It's also much faster and cheaper than court.